Young girls share their story

On this page, we create space for the voices that need to be heard. We share the personal and honest stories of young girls: about dreams that are big, challenges that sometimes weigh heavily, and the strength they find every day.

Basmati is anxious about her future study

I was a well-behaved and obedient student, which is why my teachers liked me. I completed my studies up to grade 12 at my village school, Kapilvastu Rastriya Secondary School. I want to pursue a bachelor’s degree and serve my community, but I fear my dream will remain just a dream,” said Basmati Bhar.

Basmati is 18 years old and belongs to the Bhar community, where most girls marry by the age of 14 or 15. She is one of the few girls who is still studying and striving to become an educated woman. Her family consists of four members: her father, mother, brother, and herself. The family used to depend entirely on her father’s income, but he is now suffering from paralysis. Consequently, her mother works as a daily wage laborer. Her 16-year-old brother and Basmati herself are still studying, though they work during holidays to help out. However, a large portion of their income is spent on their father’s medication.

Now, her mother has reached a point where she can no longer afford the tuition fees. Her mother told her, “I need to save money for your marriage now that you are 18.” While marriage is her mother’s dream, education is Basmati’s. She needs Rs 50.000 (€ 300,00) per year to continue her studies. As a result, Basmati is deeply anxious about her future.

Poverty is Pushing Me Toward Early Marriage: Help Me Protect My Dream

My name is Jugurmilli Tharu. I am an 18-year-old girl from Buddhabhumi-10, Kapilvastu, and a proud member of the indigenous Tharu community. I made history in my village as the first girl to pass the SEE examination on her first attempt—a success my entire community celebrated with joy.
After my exams, I continued my studies and completed Grade 12 at a nearby school. My dream has always been clear: to become a teacher. I want to give back to my community and empower the next generation of children, especially girls, through education.
 
Recently, my life changed drastically. My father fell seriously ill and was bedridden for a long time. Our family exhausted our savings on his treatment, but tragically, he passed away. With his death, we lost not only a father but also our financial stability.
Tragedy struck again when my elder brother, who was working hard to support us, died in an accident. Now, our family has no breadwinner. My mother is over 65 years old and requires constant care and support.

Because of this extreme poverty, my education is at risk. Facing a hopeless financial situation, my mother is planning for my marriage. In our community, it is traditional for parents to arrange marriages, and many girls are married before the age of 20. I am only 18, yet the pressure to marry soon is growing every day.
But I am not ready for marriage. I do not want to become a bride; I want to remain a student.

To continue my education, I need € 475 per year. This covers my college admission fees, books, stationery, clothes, and a bicycle to commute to campus.
If I am given the opportunity to study, I will dedicate the next four years entirely to my degree. Your support will not only delay an early marriage but will allow me to achieve my dream of becoming a teacher and serving my community.
 
Please, do not let poverty be the end of my story. I sincerely hope for your support to keep my dreams alive.

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